Products

Dating tools for transgender and cisgender matches.

Alternative helps transgender and cisgender adults meet, date, flirt, and keep things casual with clear intentions from the first hello.

Profiles built for attraction and clarity

Share pronouns, gender identity, dating preferences, relationship intentions, and visibility settings so people know who you are and what you are looking for.

Discovery for trans-cis dating

Filters and preference controls help transgender members find cisgender people who are genuinely interested, and help cisgender members connect respectfully with transgender people.

Chat that keeps consent clear

Conversation nudges, reporting tools, and safety reminders help members flirt, date, and arrange meetups without leaving respect behind.

Stories

Chemistry looks different for everyone.

Mara and Jules leaning in close over coffee at a sunlit café window.

Mara & Jules

We matched because we were both upfront about attraction, boundaries, and wanting to see where the night could go.

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Theo and Ana in a mirror selfie, one kissing the other on the cheek while holding a camera.

Theo & Ana

Alternative made it easier to say what we wanted before the first message, so the chemistry felt honest from day one.

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Samira laughing with her hands in her hair against a pink backdrop.

Samira

I joined because I wanted cisgender dates who were open, respectful, and clear about being attracted to transgender women.

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Photos use models and are for illustrative purposes.