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Share pronouns, gender identity, dating preferences, relationship intentions, and visibility settings so people know who you are and what you are looking for.
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Alternative helps transgender and cisgender adults meet, date, flirt, and keep things casual with clear intentions from the first hello.
Share pronouns, gender identity, dating preferences, relationship intentions, and visibility settings so people know who you are and what you are looking for.
Filters and preference controls help transgender members find cisgender people who are genuinely interested, and help cisgender members connect respectfully with transgender people.
Conversation nudges, reporting tools, and safety reminders help members flirt, date, and arrange meetups without leaving respect behind.
Stories

We matched because we were both upfront about attraction, boundaries, and wanting to see where the night could go.
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Alternative made it easier to say what we wanted before the first message, so the chemistry felt honest from day one.
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I joined because I wanted cisgender dates who were open, respectful, and clear about being attracted to transgender women.
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